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Keeping Shabbat at Home

Shabbat is one of the key observances that have kept the Jewish people alive and vibrant throughout our history. Following is a brief outline of some of the more important rituals that are traditionally observed: Candles are lit before sunset on Friday. Festive clothes are worn. Following Kabbalat Shabbat Services in shul, and prior to the first festive meal, we traditionally sing Shalom Aleichem, welcoming the Shabbat into our homes. Many also sing Eishet Chayil (Woman of Valour). Parents bless their children by placing their hands on the heads of their children and invoking the Priestly Benediction (the text can be found in the Siddur). The head of the household recites the Kiddush (formal Sanctification) over wine or grape juice. Following Kiddush, everyone prepares for the meal with ritual hand-washing using a special cup, and reciting the blessing al netilat yadayim. We refrain from speaking until the blessing over the challah (Hamotzi) is made, pieces are distributed, and everyone partakes.

The meal, which should be as elaborate as one can afford, is the first of three festive meals. Traditionally, Zemirot (Shabbat songs) are sung during the meals prior to Birkat HaMazon (Grace after Meals). A different Kiddush, called Kiddusha Rabba, is recited prior to the second meal, following Shacharit and Mussaf prayers in the morning.

Shabbat, as the day we refrain from work – and indeed all creative activities – is the ideal time to devote to Torah study as well as communal prayer. The third Shabbat meal follows Mincha, the afternoon prayers. With the conclusion of the day after dark on Saturday evening, we bid farewell to Shabbat after Ma’ariv (evening prayer). By reciting Havdalah, which formally separates Shabbat from the mundane days of the week. For Havdallah we employ wine or grape juice, a multi-wick candle (candle-lighting begins and ends Shabbat) and fragrant spices to lift our spirits as the Shabbat departs.

Rosh Hashanah

Rosh Hashanah is the first day of the New Year according to the Jewish calendars. The preparations for the two-day observance of Rosh Hashonah begin a month earlier on Rosh Chodesh Elul. Each morning we sound the shofar following Shacharit prayers, a ‘wake-up call’ to begin the process of repentance (Teshuvah). Rosh Hashanah is in fact referred to in the Torah as Yom Teruah (the day of the Sounding of the Shofar). Other names to which this holiday is referred are: Yom haDin (Day of Judgement) and Yom Hazikaron (Day of Memorial).

Not only are we judged by God, but we are expected to judge our own actions and draw the appropriate conclusions. The main theme of Rosh Hashanah is repentance, i.e. and opportunity for self-examination and to make amends for our mistakes and shortcomings.

Rosh Hashanah begins the period of Yamim Noraim (Days of Awe), which concludes with Yom Kippur. These ten days are called Aseret Yemei Teshuvah, the Ten Days of Repentence. Selichot (prayers of penitence) are said early in the morning while it is still dark outside, beginning the week before Rosh Hashanah and culminating with Yom Kippur. Traditionally during this period we visit the graves of our deceased relatives, as an act of devotion and respect. On the first day of Rosh Hashanah (the second day if the first is Shabbat) in the afternoon we observe a ritual called Tashlich, in which we symbolically ‘cast our sins away’ by throwing crumbs into a body of water. During the festive meals we eat a piece of challah in honey to symbolize our hope that the coming year will be a sweet one. Other traditional foods, called Simana Milta, symbolize our hope and aspirations for the coming year.

Yom Kippur
While on Rosh Hashanah we are judged, according to the Talmud the verdict is sealed on Yom Kippur, making it the most solemn day on the Jewish calendar. On this day by strictly fasting we seek atonement and pardon for our transgressions, against God and against our fellow human beings. The day is properly known as Yom HaKippurim or Day of Atonement. Yom Kippur is properly spent in prayer, beginning with the evening service, called Kol Nidre, and continuing through the entire day.

Prior to Kol Nidre we consume a festive meal to prepare us for the rigors of the fast. It is customary to light a Yahrzeit candle for dearly departed relatives who we wish to remember. A Tallit is worn during Kol Nidre and the Evening service, the only time we do so at night.
A confessional prayer, called Vidui”, is recited ten times over the course of Yom Kippur. Vidui prompts us to realize that we may have, through our actions, caused hurt or harm to other people – and that through reconciliation, forgiveness, confession and repentance we can avert the harsh decrees that would otherwise be our due.

Yizkor is recited. The Ne’ilah Service, which concludes Yom Kippur, is a final appeal for forgiveness, and is filled with the hope that our prayers and confessions have been answered. Ne’ilah concludes with the dramatic sounding of the shofar, followed by the evening Service. Everyone then returns home to break his or her fast.
Sukkot
Sukkot is the Torah-mandated seven-day holiday that recalls the temporary shelters in which the Israelites lived in the desert during the forty years following the Exodus from Egypt. Everyone has the obligation to at least eat in a Sukkah during the holiday, although where it is possible (especially in Israel where the climate is more moderate) many also sleep in the Sukkah, in fulfillment of the mitzvah to dwell in a Sukkah. There are very specific restrictions governing the walls and covering of a Sukkah (the covering is called schach). Typically, we adorn the inside of a Sukkah with elaborate decorations.

Sukkot has a strong agricultural component and is also known as Chag HaAsif (Festival of Gathering), in which the landowners and labourers thanked God for the produce that the Land had yielded during the recent harvest. The agricultural aspect of Sukkot receives symbolic expression through the mitzvah of Arba Minim, the four agricultural species consisting of the lulav (Palm-tree branch), etrog (Citron), three Hadassim (myrtle branches) and two Aravot (willow branches). The latter three are bound together in a specific way, and are held in hand, together with the etrog, while we make the blessing Al Netilat Lulav, and the Shehecheyanu. The lulav and etrog are also held and waved in a specific way during Hallel and the Hoshanah prayers. The seventh day is known as Hoshana Rabbah, referring to the extra Hoshanah prayers said in the morning. An ancient custom that we follow is to beat a willow branch on the floor at the conclusion of Hoshanot.
Shemini Atseret
Shemini Atseret, the Yom Tov that follows seven days of Sukkot, is a separate festival not directly connected to it. This day we begin saying the prayer for rain in the Land of Israel during the Amidah prayer, recited three times each day.
Simchat Torah

Simchat Torah is a joyous festival that immediately follows Shemini Atseret. On this day we mark the completion of the yearly Torah-reading cycle, as well as the immediate beginning of the new cycle. During the evening and morning all of the Torah scrolls are removed from the Ark, and everyone is given the honour of carrying a Torah during Hakafot, the seven processions around the shul that are accompanied by singing and dancing. Traditionally the children are given flags and apples or sweets for the Hakafot. In the morning, the last portion of the Torah is read publicly at multiple locations, so that everyone has a chance to go up to the Torah for an aliyah. After everyone has been given this honour, all the children are called up to the Torah together. Two special people are honoured, one of whom is called up for the last portion of the annual cycle (the Chatan Torah) while the second is called for the first portion of the new cycle (the Chatan Bereishit). Simcha Torah marks the end of the cluster of festivals and observances that began with Rosh Hashanah.

Chanukah

Chanukah, which commemorates both the military victory of the Jews by Judah Maccabee over the Syrian oppressors, and the rededication of the Holy Temple following that victory, Chanukah is celebrated for eight days. The eight days recall the miracle that took place when only one cruse of sacramental oil was found in the Temple, which should have burned for only one day. However, it lasted a full eight days. To this end, we light a Chanukiyah, an  eight-branched candelabrum, lighting one candle the first evening and adding one each time until all are lit on the eighth night. A ninth candle is lit, separated from the others, to act as a shamash (server candle) in order to light the other candles. The reason is that the eight candles may not be used for any purpose other than “proclaiming the miracle” (pirumei nisa), and that includes lighting other candles. The Chanukiyah is lit near a window or door, in order that passerby will see the lit candles, which is the fulfillment of the precept to publicize the miracle of Chanukah.

Some traditional foods associated with Chanukah are potato latkes and sufganiyot, a kind of filled donut with a jam centre. Both are fried in oil, hence the connection to this holiday. There is an ancient custom to give the children “Chanukah gelt”, money in the form of coins. A four-sided top called a dreidle is a popular toy.

Tu B'Shevat
Tu BiShevat is a early-spring festival. Tu BiShevat is called in the Mishnah the “New Year for Trees.” The custom is to eat fruits of trees native to Israel on this day, such as dates, figs, carob (bokser), etc.
Purim

Purim celebrates the foiling of a wicked plot in ancient Persia by Haman, a high government official, to wipe out the Jews. As dramatically told in the Scroll of Esther (Megillat Esther), Haman’s scheme was the first recorded instance of anti-Semitism and attempted genocide against the Jews. The primary observance of the day is to hear the Megillah read publicly from a parchment scroll, on the eve of Purim and again during the morning prayers. Noisemakers are employed to try to drown out the sound of Haman’s name during the reading. All of the remaining observances are cited in the Megillah itself. These include:

  • “the half-shekel”, money given to the poor and commemorating the half-shekel given by all during the times when the Temple stood in Jerusalem.
  • The Purim feast, which is begun while it is still light on Purim day.
  • Matanot LaEvyonim (gifts for the poor). Aside from the “half-shekel to help enable them to celebrate Purim properly.
  • Mishloach Manot (sending “portions”). Gifts for food sent to friends and acquaintances. At least two kinds of food should be included. It’s not necessary to be elaborate – simple and inexpensive are best. Mishloach Manot are delivered during the day, and ideally by a ‘third party’ (a messenger rather than the giver).
Pesach
One the alternate names for Pesach is Chag HaAviv, The Festival of Spring. In many ways Pesach, like spring, signifies renewal, when nature comes to life again after the dark winter. The idea of cleaning in preparation for the holiday is an ancient tradition in keeping with the season. But the main focus of Pesach is the deliverance of the Israelites from Egyptian bondage, and with it the birth of the Nation of Israel.

Recalling the hasty departure of the newly-freed slaves from Egypt, and the fact that they had no time to let their bread – hastily prepared for their departure – leaven and rise, we follow the Torah’s instruction to forever commemorate the event by consuming unleavened bread exclusively. The baking of matzah and the stringent requirements to exclude any remnant of leavened bread from our food and utensils are perhaps the most challenging aspects of the preparations. Once the home is purged of chametz (leaven), the final step is to contractually sell any remaining traces (via your local Rabbi) to a non-Jew, who is allowed to possess chametz during Passover.

Prior to the sale, a symbolic room-to-room ‘search’ for chametz yields a few pieces which can then be ceremonially burned during the morning prior to Pesach. The household is thus rid of its chametz with satisfying finality as the remains go up in smoke. The cleaning and ‘kashering’ of utensils for the holiday is well beyond the scope of this short summary – please consult the publication that BEBY provides prior to Pesach for more detailed information.

Technically, the day before Pesach is a fast day for bechorim (first-born sons), but attendance at shul early in the morning before Pesach ensures that one can hear a ‘siyum’ (conclusion of a Talmudic tractate) which then obliges the attendee to eat a joyous meal, and incidentally cancels the requirement to fast that day. Universally, families gather for the Seder Night, in which the narrative of Passover, called the Haggadah is read and discussed by all well into the night and includes the main event, a huge festive meal. In the Diaspora, the second night features a second Seder. The eight days of Pesach conclude with two days of Yom Tov. Yizkor is said on the last day.
Sefirat HaOmer
The seven weeks between Pesach and Shavuot are counted on a daily basis through the Sefirat HaOmer (Counting of the Omer). The Omer was a barley offering that was brought to the Temple on the second day of Pesach. The Omer period, beginning on the second night of Pesach, symbolizes the link between Exodus (on Pesach) and Revelation (on Shavuot)
Yom HaShoah VeHaGevurah
Jews around the world commemorate the 27th of Nisan as Holocaust Memorial Day, to perpetuate the memory of six million Jews who perished at the hands of the Nazis during World War II.
Yom HaZikaron / Yom HaAtzmaut
On the 5th of Iyar, we remember those who perished in defense of the fledgling State of Israel, both prior to the day when the State was declared on May 14, 1948, and since in four major wars. At the same time we celebrate Israel’s birthday on this day. Hallel is said during morning services. The community comes together to celebrate with music, food and camaraderie in solidarity with our brethren in modern Israel.
Yom Yerushalayim
The 28th of Iyar marks the anniversary of the liberation of Jerusalem during the Six Day War in 1967. Jerusalem is so central to Judaism and in our prayers that this event, marking the first time that all of Jerusalem is in Jewish hands in nearly 2000 years, is nothing short of a modern-day miracle. Recognizing this, the Chief Rabbinate in Israel declared that full Hallel should be said on this day. We celebrate it as the fulfillment of an age-old dream, and yet another sign of coming Redemption for the Jewish people.
Shavuot

Once a purely agricultural festival, Shavuot has evolved to become our celebration of the giving of the Torah at Sinai. Our principal observance of this two-day Yom Tov, therefore, is to spend the entire first night engaged in intensive Torah study. The Synagogue is traditionally decorated with greenery, and we customarily eat mainly dairy foods. Yizkor is said on the second day.

Tish’a B’Av
The only major fast day besides Yom Kippur, Tish’a B’Av recalls the terrible destruction of both of First and Second Temple in Jerusalem as well as many other calamities. We consider this day to be the saddest day on the Jewish calendar. It is the custom to observe mourning practices as they would apply to the loss of a next-of-kin. Megillat Eicha (Book of Lamentations) is read in the Synagogue, followed by Kinot (poetic dirges that recall the destruction). Kinot are read the following day as well. Tefillin are worn only at Mincha in the afternoon. Leather shoes and new clothes are not worn, and Torah is not studied, except those sections dealing with the destruction of the Temple.
 


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